A Self-Pleasuring Club What to Expect

A Self-Pleasuring Club: What to Expect
Not surprisingly, self-pleasuring is an act that is most often committed
alone; indeed, social norms dictate that self-pleasuring in a public setting is
unacceptable and frequently illegal. Of course, sometimes partners will
include mutual self-pleasuring as part of their sensual lives, but in general
it’s considered a private activity. However, in many places, people may take
advantage of a self-pleasuring club, a situation in which men and/or women
gather together to enjoy self-stimulating together. A man who practices good
male organ health may find such a situation very agreeable—and the
following can help him know what to expect during a visit to a selfpleasuring club.
 Do some research. Before attending a self-pleasuring club, find out a
few facts in advance. Although many may have a “drop in” policy,
some may also insist on advance knowledge of participants. Some ask
for a name in advance, but anonymity is part of the game, so most
accept whatever alias a person prefers to use. Also, it pays to find out
whether the club is a “jacks” club (men only), a “jills” club (female
only), or a “jacks and jills” club (both genders accepted). For a firsttimer, he should figure out if he will feel more at ease or less selfconscious with a group of other men or with a group that includes
women as well. (Please note, however, that in most cases, men are
more into self-pleasuring clubs than are women—so even at a jacks
and jills club, men tend to outnumber women by a significant margin.)
It also helps to know a few other basics before attending, such as:
Does the club provide lubricant, or should a guy bring his own? What
about paper towels/tissues for clean-up? Is there a charge to enter, and
if so, how much? Often, questions like these will be answered on a
club’s website.
 Respect boundaries. In a crowded club situation, there usually will
be many different self-pleasuring groups. Some may involve many
participants, some may involve only two people. Some may involve
participants handling only their own equipment while others may
involve hands roaming over other people’s bodies and genitals. Be
aware that some people may want something different than what you
want; if another person indicates they are not interested, don’t be
insulted or take it personally—just accept this and move on.
 Touching only. Naturally, things get very intense and hot in a selfpleasuring club, and some people may want to move on beyond just
self-pleasuring. Most of these clubs are set up only for self-pleasuring,
and members are expected to follow those rules. If two (or more)
participants feel like moving on to the next stage, they should arrange
to do so elsewhere.
 Clean up after yourself. Clearly, a big reason a guy goes to a selfpleasuring club is to release seed. It is incumbent upon each individual
to be a good and responsible guest and to thoroughly clean up after
releasing. Also, it is generally considered acceptable to release on the
floor but not, say, on a chair or other piece of furniture.
A guy will feel better at a self-pleasuring club if his member is in good
condition, so regular use of a first-rate male organ health creme (health
professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven
mild and safe for skin) is encouraged. When other guys are looking at his
equipment, he’ll feel better if the skin is smooth and toned, rather than dry
and flaky—so he should select a cream with both a high-end emollient (like
shea butter) and a natural hydrator (like vitamin E) to create a “moisture
lock” for the male organ skin. The best cream will also include vitamin A,
which has anti-bacterial properties to help fight persistent member odor—
which can be embarrassing at a self-pleasuring club.