Self-Pleasuring Control: Fighting the Urge

There’s nothing quite like a little self-pleasuring, but every so often a guy may want (or need) to exercise a little control over his favorite solo activity.

Self-Pleasuring Control: Fighting the Urge
While most men like to think that they are master of their domain, the fact is
that being able to control the urge for self-pleasuring can be challenging for
many. Of course, there’s usually no physical reason for needing to control
the rate of self-pleasuring; studies indicate that self-pleasuring is even
healthy for a guy. But most guys go through some period when they think
they’d like to control the urge for a while – a few weeks, a few days –
sometimes even a few hours. They may do so because they’re saving up
seed for making a baby or because they’re raw and tender or because they
need to spend more time on that big project for work. Whatever the reason,
they may find it can be surprisingly hard to keep the hands out of the danger
So for those guys who are planning a vacation from self-elation for a while,
the following tips may come in handy (or non-handy, as the case may be).
 Avoid the adult imagery. Okay, so this seems like a basic no-brainer.
Staring at pictures of beautiful people engaging in sensual frenzies is
hardly the best way to pull back on the self-pleasuring game. Dump
any adult imagery which is hanging around the house and avoid the
temptation to just “take a quick peek” at any new videos that have
been added to a favorite adult site.
 Know the triggers. Every person has different triggers. A guy should
take a few moments to figure out his personal self-pleasuring triggers
before trying to control his self-fondling. Avoiding adult imagery is a
common one, but what others are unique to a specific man? Do certain
fragrances cause excitement? Does talking to a vivacious redhead at
work make a guy feel like a quick session in the men’s room? Make a
list – and take steps to keep the triggers at bay.
 Sleep later. A lot of guys wake up with morning wood and decide
they’ve got just enough time to take matters in their own hand. To
avoid this temptation, set the alarm clock for ten or twenty minutes
later so that rushing is necessary to avoid being late.
 Take cold showers. Not only does this help to dampen the
sensual drive, but it encourages a guy to get out of the shower quickly,
rather than luxuriating in it and finding time to self-gratify.
 Keep busy. Often self-pleasuring comes about due to boredom – so
fill the week with plenty of activities. And this can have the added
bonus of allowing a guy to spend time with old friends he hasn’t seen
in a while or actually see all those great movies he never has time for.
 Get hobbied. If it’s hard to fill the time, take up a new hobby (or
restart an old one).
 Have a lot of coupling. If a dude is in a relationship (or several, as
the case may be), he should take advantage of that fact during his selfpleasuring vacation. The more coupling he has, the less likely he is to
want to self-satisfy. Of course, there are some men who find that they
actually self-stimulate more when in a sensual relationship – so for
those men, find an excuse to avoid going to bed with any partners for
a while.
Not every guy needs to worry about whether they can control their selfpleasuring, but all men do need to be sure to take steps to keep their
manhood in proper form. This can more easily be attained if a man regularly
uses a first rate manhood health crème (health professionals recommend
Man 1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin). To
find the best choice, look for a crème that includes both a high-end emollient
(such as Shea butter) and a natural hydrator (such as vitamin E), so the
member skin can be kept healthy. Ideally, the crème should also include
vitamin A, which possesses antibacterial properties that can help fight
persistent manhood odor, a major cause of conflict in a relationship.